THE right voice can heat up a room with a single sentence. A bad voice, like bad breath, can make sex appeal vanish in an instant.
Squeaky, strident, screechy, too loud, too quiet, mumbled, monotone - none of these will do you any favours. So here are some tips to sex up your sound:
Someone who "takes your breath away" can do it in a accurate sense. When we're nervous or excited, we stop breathing. Without oxygen your voice sounds high-pitched and strangled. Take a big breath before you open that mouth.
Make sure your voice matches your image. If you've got a little girl voice, people will assume you're girlie and giggly because voices generally match personalities. People are attracted to people who make sense: does your voice need a revamp to reflect the new you?
Most of us get a horrible shock when hearing it back but it's a great way to fix bad habits. How's your pitch and tone? Do you talk too fast or too slow? Close your eyes and imagine you haven't met the person the voice belongs to. What do you think they'd be like?
Robbed of a face to go with the voice, every word of a phone call is loaded with significance. Silence is nearly always taken as disapproval. A rises in tone as anger. Smile and your voice soften and changes.